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Guia do Papo Sexy™ : Escalando a Conversa™ por Alex Rio

A Social Training Lab Report

Attraction Magnets
12 "Almost Magic" Topics That Keep
a Conversation Going- and Spark
Attraction in the Women You're
Talking to…

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12 topics for more fun, attractive, and "sexy" conversations
with women… and how to skillfully introduce these topics into
your conversations…

I've been teaching men how to improve their conversation skills and learn to talk to
women in an attractive way for several years now… and one question seems to keep
coming up over and over again and over and over again…
"What do I talk about?"
Doesn't surprise you, does it?
If you spent any amount of time in the dating world than it is highly likely that at some
point you've experienced the frustration of running out of things to say, awkward
silences, and struggling to find topics of conversation that are not flat out boring.
I call this the "What do I Talk About" Syndrome.

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And it stems from the fact that most men have no clue what are good conversation
topics to generate attraction in women.
Sure, by now you probably realize that "interview mode" never leads to attraction.
…But you're probably still wondering 'what the hell do I talk about to fill all that dead air
with a woman- and what conversation topics will actually lead to her feeling attraction
towards me?"

Conversation Ammunition
Well, before I get into the actual topics… let's first talk about why it is so important to
introduce the right topics into your conversations with women...
I already mentioned "interview mode." Interview mode usually stems from guys having
no clue what to say next… so they revert to asking boring "fact based" questions about
the woman's job, hometown, or family.
"Do you have any siblings?"
"Where did you go to college?"
"What made you decide to be a nurse?"
The main problem with these questions is that they are generic. They don't separate
you from the hundreds of other guys who have probably asked the same questions…
nor do they ignite any emotions or feelings of attraction.
Yet, because you don't know what topics to talk about… you continually let the woman
lead you into this dead end trap of a conversation.
Having a repertoire of topics that you can unleash at any moment allows you to remain
in control of the conversation.
If you read the "Gary Null Story" in my The Small Talk Tactics Report than you saw how I
easily handed over control of the conversation to the woman- and was stuck talking
about health food for the next hour.
If you don't have the ammunition to keep a conversation flowing naturally towards
YOUR OBJECTIVE… she will likely steer the conversation towards something "safe" and
"boring." (and you'll likely catch her giving one of your mates a hand job an hour later)

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But ultimately the most important reason to have pocket full of "sexy" topics you can
whip out at any time is that it will provide you with a level of "conversational
confidence" that will power you talk to a lot more women.
The number one fear that holds most men back from approaching a woman they are
interested in is the fear of awkward silences and running out of things to say… And if
you can inject your consciousness with a steady stream of topics… you'll be much more
"quick witted" and this fear will eventually disappear… and you'll naturally find yourself
talking to women wherever you are.
What are the traits of good topics for conversation?
Not all topics are created equal.
And most will just bore her silly.
She doesn’t want to hear about your job. She doesn't care about
how long you've lived in your current city. And if one more guys
asks her "Do you come hear often?" she will probably scream.
So what are some traits of topics that she DOES want to talk
about. And more importantly… what are the traits of topics that
will lead you to your desired outcome… ATTRACTION.
There are six main traits that good topics possess:
1. A good topic should build rapport. This means that the topic will allow you and the
woman to relate to each other on some level. It will give you an opportunity to build
trust, and foster a connection with her. Once a woman finds that you have some level
of connection with her… she will let her guard down and be much more open to
continuing the conversation.
2. A good topic should create an emotional state. Most of us walk around in what I
refer to as "a boredom trance." The daily grind keeps us void of any real emotions. So
we hunger for emotions. This is why the entertainment industry is a multi-billion dollar
a year business. It satisfies our craving for an emotional state. If you choose topics that
ignite these lost or repressed "positive" emotions, the woman you are talking to will be
putty in your hands.

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3. A good topic should make you three dimensional. When a woman meets you she
has trouble differentiating you from the hundreds of other hound dogs who have
approached her over her life. It is easier for her to group you in with all of them and
reject you.
This is why it is important that you immediately introduce topics that will create a
unique identity for you. It is even more powerful to add some contradictions to your
identity. (You are an intellectual thinker- who also is an MMA fighter) This will not only
make you unpredictable… but it will allow her to imagine herself having fun with you in
different types of scenarios.
4. A good topic provides hooks to keep a conversation going. Ultimately you want to
get her to open up to you, express her emotions, and become invested in the
conversation. The best way to do this is provide hooks for you to chime in. This means
that a good topic acts as "bait" to hook her into becoming more emotionally involved in
the conversation.
5. A good topic allows you to display your attractive qualities. There are certain
characteristics that women universally find attractive. These characteristics include:
pre-selected by other women, social proof, leader of men, worldly, passionate, fun, and
adventurous. The more of these characteristics the topic allows you to display – the
better.
6. A good topic leads to sexuality. If your goal is to create sexual attraction in a woman
then ultimately you need to begin to build sexual tension. And the topics of your
conversation must allow you to do this. This means that a good topic should be visceral;
it should lend itself to touching, and should produce an undercurrent of sexuality.
Based on these six criteria I'm sure some good conversation topics are beginning to pop
into your head.
But I'm going to make it even easier for you…
I've come up with the 12 topics that best meet the six traits listed above. These are 12
conversation topics that you can inject into any conversation and immediately eliminate
any boredom, fill awkward silences, and prevent yourself from stalling out- or running
out of things to say.

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12 "Almost Magic" Topics That Keep a Conversation Goingand Spark Attraction in the Women You're Talking to…
Here they are…

1. Glorified gossip
Glorified gossip is where you tell the story of people you know and something that
happened to one of them.
This is the sort of thing PUA routines are based on.
This is all about taking the "drama" of your friend's lives and turning into conversation.
It is best to pick highly charged subjects that evoke strong opinions.
Anything dealing with relationships, sex, weird twists… think "Jerry Springer." The more
twisted the better.
I often tell the story of a friend who talked to a girl on the internet for almost a year on
daily basis. But every time they were supposed to meet something would come up.
Later he found out that she was a bored housewife who actually lived thousands of
miles away.

2. Unusual experiences
Have you ever met someone famous or fascinating?
Did something bazaar or intriguing ever happen to
you or someone you know?
When recounting the story do a steady mix of facts
and emotions. This means don't just recount
events… get into the details of what you were
thinking… how you were processing what was happening.
How we react in certain situations reveals our true character. So don't be afraid to let
the woman into your thoughts.

3. Passions and interests
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As I said earlier… most people walk around in a "boredom trance" and never experience
anything that even remotely resembles passion… So we crave it.
And when we find someone who has genuine passion for something we are often awed
by them.
Passion also displays a level of certainty. The fact that you are so passionate about
something shows a woman that you have clear values. It shows her that you can make
up your own mind. And it shows her that you have the confidence to make decisions.
But beware… because so many of us lack passion in our lives- we feel threatened by
other people's passion and often try to "shit test" them. This means that a woman will
often try to turn you against your passion to see if it is legitimate. If you ever read The
Fountainhead you know exactly what I mean.
But don't let this stop you from discussing your passion. Whether it is writing, art,
music, movies, traveling, books, golf...

4. Early Struggles to get ahead
People love stories of loss and redemption, home town boy makes good, and any sort of
underdog story.
These stories can include the time you beat up the town bully; or how you slept in your
car for six days because you were dead broke...only to later get the job of your dreams;
or your struggle with cold calling clients, moving to a new city, or your first time
snowboarding.
People are bored if you talk about what is currently happening to you or focus too much
on yourself. But if you have a story where you faced a big obstacle and overcame it- it
will show the woman you're talking to that you are not the sort of guy who backs down
from a challenge. And will give her a chance to recount one of her past glories.

5. Early years and childhood
Our childhood is a special place for all of us.
Yet, we very rarely get a chance to talk about it. When we do- it opens up a flood gate
of emotions.
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If something stands out vividly in your mind years after it happened it will probably be
interesting to the person you're talking to.
I went to a nightmare of a sleep-a-way camp when I was young… and can still capture
the attention of a room recounting the horrors of that experience.
You also want to ask her questions that will get her recounting her childhood
experiences.
Not only does talking about our childhood years bring out emotions many of us having
felt in awhile… it also is a refreshing change of pace from our current reality.

6. Current pop culture
This is sort of a "go to" topic. It beats the weather, or
"interview style" questions but should only be using sparingly to
fill dead air or as a way to find hooks.
It's best to ask her opinion on something like "Would you ever
date The Situation from the Jersey Shore."
You can also inject pop culture references into your conversation to create a sense of
rapport.

7. Travel
People love to talk about travel.
They key here is to let her talk. Don't feel the need to jump in immediately and tell your
stories or brag about where you've been. Instead use it as an opportunity to dig deeper
into her interests, desires, and passions, and world views.
And have a couple your own "travel stories" ready. Instead of just giving a laundry list of
places you've been to… have one or two memorable stories from one of your recent
adventures. (The more exotic the location the better)
Travel is an attraction trigger. Women are naturally attracted to men who travel a lot.
It makes them seem worldly and slightly out of reach.

8. Lessons you've learned
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Do you have any valuable anecdotes where you learned a good lesson?
We all like to learn from the experiences of others.
Since the object of your conversation is to create attraction it is best to tell the
anecdotes in an amusing way.
I often tell the story of a boss who used to ride me hard at work. He gave me a lot of
shit. I recount some of the humorous (and exaggerated) accounts of what he would do
to make my life miserable. Later that same boss wound up recommending me for a
promotion… and I realized he was testing me to see if I had what it takes. I usually
segue way into how women "shit test" men for the same reason.

9. Future ambitions
It is best to use a story of your future ambitions to root a question or statement that will
get her talking about hers.
When a woman shares her future ambitions with you it somehow connects you to her.
It is like she is letting giving you a little glimpse of her soul… and now that you've seen ityou share a bond with her.
It is important to point out that anytime a woman is sharing her future ambition with
you NEVER belittle her or crack jokes about it. For many of us, no one ever gives us the
opportunity to talk about our future goals and it is a really big deal for us.

10. Observations about her
We all love to hear observations about us by people who don’t really know us.
You can do this by cold reading her or just flat out telling her how she comes across.
This usually opens up Pandora's Box and an entire conversation worth of material comes
spilling out.
This is a great "conversation steroid."
This means that no matter what topic the two of you are discussing you can always
insert your observation of her into it.

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For instance, if she is telling you about her recent trip to Africa… you can say "Wow.
When I first started talking to you – you sort of gave off a really "princess" like vibe… its
cool to see that you are not afraid to get a little wild and adventurous."
Can you see how a statement like that will open up Pandora's Box?

11. Observations about your surroundings
When talking to a woman it is usually fun to spend some time people watching. This
means you cold read the people around you… or even create "imaginary lives" for them.
In order to use this effectively you need to become "quick witted" and get good at
spotting humorous or ironic things.
For instance, if you catch an older man with a really attractive younger date… you could
say "Is he rich or is she a working girl?"
Or you could turn it into a story and say something like "She moved out here to NY to
become a model… but too much partying left her ass a little bigger than the agencies
liked.. she thought about going back home to Tennessee… but that would be too
embarrassing… so she convinced herself she is in love with Old Man Clementine over
here…"

12. Music
Bonding over a shared interest in music is a classic way to build rapport
with someone. This is especially true if you both like obscure bands or
styles of music.
But music can be an equally good topic of discussion even if you don't
share similar tastes.
This is because it opens up an ample opportunity for some cold reading. Have you
noticed that people who like certain types of music share certain outlooks on life?
Certain commonalities?
Tell her about.
You can even use this as a way to start cold reading her.

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So, there are the twelve best topics of conversation for talking to women.

Tips for implanting
Once you know what sort of topics make for best conversations with women… it is time
to start introducing them into your conversations.
The best way to do this is through a technique I call "rooting."
"Rooting" means you say something that plants the seed of what you are about to say
next."
For instance, if you want to begin talking about "early childhood memories" you could
say something like:
"You totally have this way about you that reminds me of my third grade teacher Mrs.
Robbins. Haha… I remember one time in that class…"
See how you easily began talking about "early childhood memories" by simply rooting it
by telling her she reminds you of your third grade teacher.

Create a story folder
One of the best suggestions I can give you is create a folder on your computer titled
"stories." And whenever you recount a story that would fit into any of these topics
discussed in this article- file it away.
You can them pull the stories out and fine tune the details. Add things that make the
story funnier or more dramatic. Don't be afraid to exaggerate. She expects that you're
probably exaggerating a bit anyway.

Mix and Match four stories
The best way for you to begin remembering to begin telling stories and statements
based off of the topics in this article is to begin by choosing four.
Pick the four topics that resonate the most with you, and create four stories that will
allow you to introduce the topic into the conversation.

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These will be your four "practice" topics so don't be discouraged if you mess up the
story or if you begin to feel like you're repeating yourself.
Once you get comfortable focusing on four topics- then you can begin to focus on some
of the other topics I've outlined here.
If you follow this advice and focus on keeping your conversations focused on the
previous 12 topics you'll quickly find that your conversations begin to sparkle with more
attraction, fun, and sexuality.
Enjoy.

Further Resources:
Conversation Escalation: Make Small Talk Sexy

Escalando a Conversa: Guia do Papo Sexy

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