Hard To Get, The Timeless Art of Conquering His Heart eBook.pdf
As with many other realities of life, many people are unhappy about this truth of
human nature and waste precious energy fighting against it. They regard it with
suspicion and even hostility – even though the truth of it stares them in the face
They may as well be fighting against the sun rising and setting, because their
discomfort is not going to change the facts of life! There’s just no denying it –
being hard to get is a fundamental principle of human nature and particularly,
romance. It can even be the make or break factor.
Lots of books and articles say that they disagree with being hard to get and
“playing games,” but then they proceed to tell people to do the exact same things
that you do when you’re “hard to get”!
By the way, when did “games” get such a bad name? So games are okay when
it’s checkers, but not okay when it comes to romance? Gee, what Sad Sack came
up with that rule? The kind of “games” we’re talking about will keep you
healthy, happy, and having the time of your life – and so will he.
This theme of human nature has been well known throughout the ages of time.
When you can’t get something easily – people want it more. Not only that, but the
price tag goes up too. (Check your local market.)
Hard to Get is a time-honored principle for a reason – it has helped hundreds of
thousands of women to learn the meaning of valuing themselves and using selfrestraint and self-discipline when some of their strongest urges could have
resulted in actions that would have NOT worked in their best interests in the long
More on “games” as we continue this program. But make no mistake about it.
Love is a game – the most wonderful “game” ever invented. Play to win. Play
hard…. to get!